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| Spending time in the garden |
My Daylilies have all lost their blooms, and their long, flowing fronds are looking "old". When we went up higher in elevation on a recent family trip we found that some of the bushes and trees are already showing shades of yellow-gold.
A change of season is upon us—a time to consider the education of our children. Whether we school at home or choose other options—there is always some trepidation. These little ones (even if they are almost six feet tall) are so precious to us—we want the best for them. We wonder if we are able to deliver to them what they truly need. Some of us are wondering about having enough to eat, others are not certain whether or not there will be a roof over their heads in the coming days (even though we know that the Lord won’t leave or forsake us).
Nevertheless, many of us sit quietly and wonder to ourselves if we will be the mothers God desires us to be. Do we allow the struggles of life and our own sinful nature to hinder the flow of God’s love through us to our children? Will we be the stumbling block in their lives, the person they could blame for sending them down a slippery slope?
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| A new day of discovery |
Will we be able to stand before the throne of God without shame or regret when it comes to the decisions we made in raising our children? Will we permit ourselves to become "vexed" like Moses, who was so incensed that he struck the rock instead of speaking to it, and thereby, missed his opportunity to enter into the Promised Land (sometimes obstinate adolescent children can drive us almost to the brink!).
Truthfully, in me lies no good thing. I may be smart and physically capable or I may not be. I might have been blessed with abundant health and glowing beauty, or I may well be dealing with the frump and changes of middle age. There may be a financial abundance in my bank account, or only 25 cents in my pocketbook. Nevertheless, I am nothing if I do not exclusively rely on the mighty power of Christ through His Holy Spirit.
If we want to be a blessing to our children, we must not trust in our own strength. We shouldn’t believe that, because we are smart or "nice" or capable, that our children will be nourished by us. Even the love of a mother has its limits. Only the unquenchable love of God will take us the distance we will ultimately need to go.
When Jesus sat by the well and spoke to the woman of Samaria who was bereft of anything resembling a good reputation, He told her exactly what we all need to understand.
We need to go deep into His well and drink up draft after draft of living water—the life-giving water of His Spirit.
And it has to be fresh. It matters not that we have memorized scriptures in the past—or that we may have attended Bible College, or that we listen to good teaching on the radio, Internet, or even that we are reading some good books. These are all profitable to us, and important, but they are not as beneficial as daily, uninterrupted time with God in the scriptures. Still waters often become foul, and acquiring portions of scripture second and third-hand is never as inspirational as when God Himself imparts His Word into our spirit.
Even through the busy years when our children are all little, there are ample creative ways to find time to spend meditating on God's Word.
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| Another blessing from God |
My dear daughter with two tiny children and one on the way uses the audio CD's of the Word we bought for her when she still lived with us. She and her husband also have the Word loaded onto their iPads, and when they were visiting us for a few weeks this summer they used these devices when we enjoyed our family devotions together. This means that she can access the words of life whenever she has a few minutes to spare—and it is not as encumbering as lugging around a large tome.
I personally prefer the feel of a book—so I keep my compact Bible by my bed, and one also in my purse. In addition, there is one in my office, prominently placed atop my bookshelf—this always takes first priority in our homeschooling. Although I have also benefited from reading devotionals and good books, I often find myself looking up a scripture referred from these sources in order to read it in its full context. Sometimes I am quite surprised to find that these references are not accurate, and at other times, I am blessed to find a whole new portion of the Word that speaks into my life.
And there are so many precious promises associated with reading and meditating on God’s Holy Word!
For one thing, it is the very way we "renew our minds" (Romans 12:2). I don't know about you, but my own mind is subject to the 2nd law of thermodynamics, specifically, "The quality of matter and/or energy deteriorates gradually over time." It is understandable that this would happen, since our minds are a part of our flesh, and as such share in the dying unleashed when Adam and Eve committed that first transgression against God’s commandment.
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| God will speak to us through His Word |
If we are trying to live a godly life, and our hope is to be transformed into the image of Christ, utilizing our own intellect will not help us much. It is only as we train our minds to “observe to do” as instructed by God's Word that we begin to see true progress.
I am impressed here with the idea that it is very possible to have the mind of Christ, that is, one that is humbly submitted at all times to the will of God. We simply need to be willing to take the time and energy to allow Him to work that miracle in us, and as we yield some of the most important segments of our day to Him, we allow our faith to bring forth blessings and fruitfulness, even in the minute things of life, such as getting the laundry actually folded and put away!
And if we want our children to grow, "In the fear and admonition of the Lord," spending time in His Word is the first and most important step in becoming an expression of God’s love to our family as well as becoming the fragrance of Christ to those in need that He may lead our way.