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Sunday, January 09, 2011

Lighten your load

Commit your works to the LORD,
And your thoughts will be established.

Proverbs 16:3

We are a planning, plotting, goal-reaching people. We are taught to strategize and have all of our ducks in a row.

With all of the danger and uncertainty in the world, people are looking for more ways to feel secure; with seminars on how we can make our money work better for us, how to stay out of debt and how to nail-down every aspect of our fiscal existence.

But we just don’t see it—at least not yet. God is not impressed with all of our vain efforts. Of course, Biblical principles will never steer us wrong—but if we miss the God that speaks these principles, we will still miss the greatest blessing of relationship with Him!

Life is not easy—no matter how one tries to make it seem so. I know some people who live what I call “prophylactic” lifestyles. They don’t just live—they are making sure that they have accounted for every contingency. They exist according to a plethora of checklists for everything from leaving the house to preventive medical tests and exams. Many are even religious for the same reasons; they want to be sure they go to heaven, but their god is not the God of the Bible; but the god of "necessity" or even "convenience". He is a small, weak and deaf deity, unable or incapable of bringing them through tragedy and heartache. Their goal in life is not to glorify the true God and enjoy Him forever; their goal is to keep themselves “safe” from trouble.

I don’t know if you’re like me, but I have observed that those who love God don’t usually live “safe” existences. I am reminded here of all the saints in the Word who followed God not by "sight" but by "faith" alone. King David certainly loved God—he was declared to be a man after God’s own heart! And yet, he went through so many trying circumstances—fleeing from King Saul after he was anointed, even living among the Philistines for a time, posing as a madman.

Even Moses was not without trials because he chose to walk with God. The prophets of God had to hide and run as a lifestyle. Jesus didn’t even have a place to lay His head. The Apostle Paul told his son in the faith, Timothy, the following:

10 But you have fully known my doctrine, manner of life, purpose, faith, long-suffering, charity, patience, 11 Persecutions, afflictions, which came to me at Antioch, at Iconium, at Lystra; what persecutions I endured: but out of them all the Lord delivered me. 12 Yes, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution. (2 Timothy 3:10-12)

Richard Wurmbrand, the gentleman who founded the ministry, Voice of the Martyrs, was not concerned about his own safety. He purposely spoke the truth during a time when to do so meant sure imprisonment and most probably death. He suffered near starvation, tuberculosis, and torture to serve God behind the Iron Curtain during the Cold War. He risked his life not only once, but even after he was released from prison, he boldly spoke out and was again mistreated for declaring and living his faith in Christ.

Today, many are heeding other voices--not discerning spiritually but carnally (human reasoning), as Paul in 1 Timothy 4 warns:

1Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils; 2Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron; 3Forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from meats, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe and know the truth. 4For every creature of God is good, and nothing to be refused, if it be received with thanksgiving: 5For it is sanctified by the word of God and prayer. (1 Timothy 4:1-4)

Brother Wurmbrand wasn’t worried about retirement, or what sorts of diseases he would get by eating prison food. He was trusting it all into God’s capable hands and infinite wisdom, realizing that this life was a fleeting, passing thing.

After his release from prison, he lived quite a long and productive life, even without checklists and precautions.

We should not (and can not) plan for every contingency. Safety should not be our preoccupation. Obedience should be our focus with our gaze on Christ!

Obedience--not sacrifice!

Instead of looking to experts, we should be training our spirits to tune in to the voice of the Holy Spirit--following His lead.

As I have said previously, we did not decide to homeschool or have a large family because we were trying to be “correct” or “religious”—no, we were confident that trusting God was far better than trusting in our own understanding. We believed then and still do today, that His thoughts and ways were so far above ours, His ways are beyond finding out—so we decided just to trust Him to direct our paths.

God knows that, in our heart-of-hearts, our motivation was to know Him, to trust Him, and to obey Him, no matter how it seems to others and no matter what the cost. And so, even if some days it looks as though the Philistines are winning, we are sure that those things we have entrusted to Him, He is able to keep for us and for His everlasting glory.

For the which cause I also suffer these things: nevertheless I am not ashamed: for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed to him against that day. (2 Timothy 1:12)

We put all of our time, money and energy into raising this family of ours by His leading. We don’t have any retirement, but we are undaunted—our God is not limited by our circumstances, and we are not to be a picture of worldly perfection, but heavenly blessings.

In the words of Betsy ten Boom, “The safest place to be is in the center of God’s will,” (after suffering the privations of a death camp in WWII, her sister Corrie went on to travel the world and lived into her 90’s).

“Lord, if You say it, I will do it. Even if no one understands it; even if I am misunderstood. Even if it looks foolish. My love for You supersedes even my need for human companionship. You are my Treasure, my Great Reward in this life. If it pleases You, it pleases me.”

12 comments »:

  1. Gosh, how I need this to be my focus! We are considering me going back to school for nursing to be more financially "secure". We are struggling right now. But in my heart, I just want to stay at home with our children. Thanks for something to pray about!

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  2. This morning my husband took the children to church while the new baby and I rested. Whenever the house gets quiet, I start thinking about his birth and all that surrounded it.

    He is our 6th child. My last child was born via VBA3C (Vaginal Birth After 3 Cesareans), and it was an amazing birth. The Lord had prepared me this entire pregnancy that something wouldn't go according to "my" plan. And it didn't.

    During pushing I had a complete uterine rupture and due to complications with the iv and sedation, they weren't able to get the baby out for 20+ minutes. He was without oxygen during that time.

    He was born dead, and by God's grace they were able to revive him and give him the treatments that he needed. He spent 12 days in the NICU and he is a perfect, sweet, NORMAL baby. Praise the Lord.

    This morning, in the quiet house, I have been praying and seeking God about future children. Our doctor told us to not have any more. But just this pregnancy did my husband and I completely GIVE God control in this area. So, I have been fretting and crying and so scared.

    And then I read this post and the scripture that you posted. Thankyou. God has not called us to an easy life with easy decisions and no pain. He has called us to give up our life, to follow Him, even unto death. I can trust Him, because He loves me and He knows all about me and His future for me.

    Praise the Lord for His love and providence. I can trust His wisdom and not man's direction. Thank you for posting. This is the second time in a week that your blog has truly been a blessing to me.

    Beth B.

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  3. Thank you! I come here often and just wanted to let you know that this post in particular was very meaningful for me. Thank you!! God bless you! I wish I could meet you, but I suppose I will have to wait until we both get to heaven. I look forward to that!

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  4. Richard Wurmbrand visited the Messianic church in South Florida we attended in the eighties. I read, Tortured for Christ, and have his great book, Marx and Satan. He had to sit down the whole time that he spoke to our church.

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  5. Thank you for this post. It really spoke to my heart. My family and I are in the mist of a difficult circumstance, and it is in part because of our obedence to follow our conviction to trust HIM for our family size and everything else. but this is a great reminder that we are doing this all for HIM and not for the applause and approval of man.

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  6. Thank you for this post! My husband and I are pursuing a call to missions...but I sometimes wonder if that's the "wise" thing to do. It might not be wise in the eyes of the world (or most Christians), but it is obedience. Thank you for your encouragement.

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  7. Thank you for your transparency in this post. I am convicted and encouraged. Thank you.

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  8. Thank you so much for sharing your heart here. This was a huge blessing to me today!!! Choosing to have as many children as God blesses you with automatically puts you on a path of faith, and on a dusty path far different than Easy Street! Thanks for the encouragement!

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  9. Thank you for sharing your heart. I'm a follower through Google Reader and I don't get much of a chance to comment on posts, but I had to come by and say "hello." :) I NEEDED to read these words today. Thank you.

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  10. I have recently discovered your blog and I'm nearly always encouraged by your wisdom- wisdom that I know is found only in precious hours spent in the Word. We have recently learned to fall in love with our Savior in a way that allows us to trust fully in Him. He is the object of our adoration, and with our eyes on Him, we cannot fall into sinful lifestyles. It has been a test of faith, to be sure, but He always proves himself to be faithful and good. He waits on us to make the step over the cliff and then He is right there to catch us every time. What a mighty God we serve!

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  11. hi, i've been also encouraged by your posts...this one really touched some of my inner, unconfessed struggles...thank you. i've been also very pleaseantly surprised to read on your post about brother Richard w. i'm romanian and he and his wife have always been a light on our life. (and talking about children-you know they only had one of their own- but their house was alawys a home for homeless children. once he came home with a sick young girl and told his wife "sabina, we have one more girl"...she took care of her till the girl got married and sabina was the one that took care of the girl's wedding dress. ...you're right if we look back to those who suffered much we see that they really lived a lot....like corrie and last month i read about Granny Brand...oh, what a story also about people who didn't look for their safety.
    another image that comes to my mind about bro.RW is from one of his books - when bucharest was being bombed he used to go out when the emurgency alarm was on, enter in the special shelters and say "hei, people do not panick, I'm a man of God, let's pray and give our lives to Jesus....and he was sharing the good news...when everybody was hiding he went out...and this was before the prison years. when he came out of the prison, he got home and said "sabina, let's praise the Lord we are together again and fast today"(after so much prison food as you pointed out)....you really encourage me

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  12. Sherry, may I quote you? I need these words of truth and encouragement. Would you ever consider speaking to woman's groups? Perhaps you have done this already. You must be very busy this time in your life. Much of the time what you say are exactly my thoughts, but carried to their completion.
    Right now you are reaching mothers like me, with many challenges. These are both cultural challenges and those of our immediate responsibility. Thank you for taking the time to write. Susan (mother of many)

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