"We know you believe in God and everything, but He gave you a brain, you know, and He expects you to use it!"
I know I have done lots and lots of stupid things, but having children is not one of them. Having children is just about the smartest thing a person could "choose" to do (God is the one who actually decides--remember the patriarch stories in the Old Testement--God is always the one opening and closing the womb).
Children give you reasons to get closer to God.
Children help you to live a more holy, moral life.
Children are the only investment that has an eternal return.
Children can go out into the fallen world and be lights for Jesus Christ to others who are in darkness.
Children give you reasons to handle your money more wisely.
Children help you to grow up--if you allow them to.
Children keep you healthier--you eat better, and at more regular intervals; you rest more regularly, and you exercise more (you might even take more vitamins).
Children give you joy and all sorts of other happy emotions.
Children keep you from becoming selfish, so that you are naturally a happier person.
Children give God more reasons to bless you financially.
The more children you have, the less likely you are to be lonely and desitute in old age--it is still true, especially when one thinks about the future of Social "Security".
On the other hand, couples who see children as a liability are the ones who are "stupid". I would not like to wake up one day at retirement age and have only money to take care of me...
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Yes, these things are true. Many people do not understand until they live through God's blessings.
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You go girl! "Behold, children are an heritage of the Lord, the fruit of the womb is His REWARD!"
ReplyDeleteI praise God with you that he so graciously blessed us with homes that are filled with the sounds of many children. May He help us embrace and wholeheartedly cherish our calling to love them, pray for them, and gently guide them toward Him. This is our daily prayer.
Love you, sister.
It takes a good brain to be a successful mom!! Not for wimps and self-centered girls, that's for sure!
ReplyDeleteOh Amen!!! This was exactly for me. We are expecting number 8 and we have gotten so many more comments this time, even elders of our church which is so sad to us. Thanks for posting this!!
ReplyDeletenicely written!
ReplyDeleteYou couldn't be more right! I loved and agree with everything you said 100%. Maybe it's not us who are not thinking. We have a future mindset.
ReplyDeleteI'm going to use some of these statements to answer those who openly criticize us for having 10 blessings. Not out of spite, mind you, but to educate those who are ignorant. Thank you for posting this!
ReplyDeleteIndeed, He did give us a brain. He also gave us reproductive organs and hormones. Why is it ok to use one and the others?? :-) My DH and I were talking just last night about how our children are being used by God to make us who we need to be. Hallelujah!!
ReplyDeleteNicely written, and oh so true. Children do indeed benefit their parents, but also society. What would our future be as a society without children? But God knows this all, already!
ReplyDeleteExcellent points. On our death beds, we tend to want to be surrounded with people, our loved ones, not our material possessions.
ReplyDeleteAmen!
ReplyDelete"I would not like to wake up one day at retirement age and have only money to take care of me..."
ReplyDeleteLove this!!!
Hi:)~I just wanted to say how much I enjoy your blog. It's such an encouraging place and I always feel so much better after reading. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteTwo years ago, I was seeking encouragement because I felt so overwhelmed as I had just found out we were expecting #6. I first found a site in which the author expressed concern about the environmental impact of another child. Comments to the site listed the women's convictions that having one or no children is better for the environment. I was really low when I finally found your site! There you were extolling the virtues of motherhood, the value of children, and encouraging me to accept the work it took as a gift and challenge from God. Two months later, I lost that baby. The thrid such loss to my husband and I in the past 18 years we had been married. I learned by experience what you put in your article. God determines the size of our family; every baby born is a miracle. I have struggled to put aside guilt and learn the lesson God had for me. I am now in the 6th month of another pregnancy, rejoicing every time I feel the little guy move! Thanking God for all his blessings...Faith
ReplyDeleteYes. Very True! Amen.
ReplyDeleteThanks for letting me peak into your day.
Early in our marriage a sister at church made that comment in conversation...Hmmm...we don't say Joshua was stupid, and his obedience to the battle plan didn't sound real logical!
ReplyDeleteI oft wondered why folk wouldn't tell a missionary laboring in a harsh country for a few years to give up and some home, instead they encourage them. I so longed for the church to support young mothers with young children in the same way.
Thank you, dear sister, for your encouragment. I often wonder over here for a taste of beauty and a bit of encouragment.
The beauty of Jesus is truly seen in you!
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Hi - I got online today because I am really struggling with something...and I landed on your site. I feel like I have a hearts desire to have a large family...and yet, I struggle so much with the two I already have. One is two and the other is 7 months...honestly it is the 7 month old I really struggle with. He is colicky and temperamental and he totally opens my eyes to how selfish and sinful I am. On days like today I wonder if I am not cut out to be a mother of a large family. I do love Jesus as much as I know how and I ask Him daily constantly to be with me and help me. I have quiet times...not every day - but almost every day. Sometimes I feel like He is right here with me. Other times I feel like He is in a different country. Any thoughts?
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