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Sunday, February 07, 2010

Homeschooling is not expensive!

Homeschooling does not have to break the bank!
One of the greatest misconceptions of homeschooling is that it is expensive. I have read it in many publications, as well as many places on the web, that a person needs to budget hundreds of dollars per child per year in order to give each a proper education.

I understand where this mindset comes from; we have all been led to believe that it takes money, and loads of it, in order to teach children. This is driven mostly by the huge public education machine in our country. Every voting season the media is bursting with pleadings for more funding, with the stories of teacher shortages, building shortages, etc. It is unfortunate just how mismanaged these dollars are, but that is the stuff for other entries and another day.

Fact is, if God is our Source, we have no fears for tomorrow--just to be happy to have enough for today.

If I only had $20, I could homeschool my children. First, I would purchase a few cheap spiral notebooks, which can be found during back-to-school sales for as little as .10 a piece. I would buy some pencils and a small sharpener. Some color crayons would be good as well. I would make sure I had a Bible handy for reading aloud, copy work, etc. A set of watercolors and some play dough could also be helpful (you could make this with flour and salt--little or no expense there!).

Next, I would get a library card and use whatever was available there. Not everyone has a great library system, but there is probably enough of one to make do until other materials could be purchased.

With that library card, I would try and check out materials that would educate me, even if I had to do an inter-library loan. These are the authors I would try and read:

Ruth Beechick
Dr. Raymond and Dorothy Moore
John Taylor Gatto
Karen Andreola

*If you have the extra money, by all means buy as many of these tomes as possible to have on hand in times of doubt, etc.

As I could squeeze out a little more money, I would cull thrift stores, garage sales, etc. in order to find books to read aloud to my children, and titles they could read to themselves eventually--I would just be careful not to buy books that are meant to reinforce the errors of our modern culture, such as Barnie books, Disney books, modern teen novels, etc. It is amazing how cheaply one can find classics to build up the home library.

Old school textbooks are also helpful--I once found an algebra textbook I used with my kids that only put me back .25! Along the way, I would look for a cheap set of old encyclopedias--we currently have two which we bought for $20 apiece. Most of the information contained in these volumes is valid, they are just missing some current events, perhaps the names of a few countries have changed, etc. Actually, kids who read encyclopedias are better educated than the ones who are stuck on the school textbook track--for one thing, they get to read the things they are most interested in, which makes the information instantly retainable. Having a good secretary's guide to basic grammar is also a great help when it comes time to write and revise.

But if I had just a little more money, say, from a tax refund, my best investment would be a computer, an all-in-one printer/copier, and the Internet.

I cannot express just how much there is on the Internet for free! If you are reading this online, you already have an idea. From encouragement to Algebra and beyond, it is all here. Classic books and textbooks that cannot be found anywhere else can be found on the Internet. The best place I can think of to start this search would be An Old Fashioned Education. Miss Maggie has compiled some of the most wonderful, and free, resources to be found, and with a Christian emphasis. It is through her site I found the best phonics program I have come across, I have never bought such a great resource that I found for free there--it is called, Word Mastery, A Course in Phonics for the First Three Grades. I have printed these pages out and used them with the children to teach them reading and spelling,...

...but only after having brought them at least partly through the book, Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons, which is another good investment to make, and costs under $20.

Donna Young is also a marvelous resource, how many of us are indebted to her! On her site you will find numerous free print resources and advice. She has created pages for organization, math drill, penmanship (including ones linked to the "100 Easy Lessons" book already referenced), science, history, etc.

I also like to purchase homework books from Carson Dellosa--amazing how well you can teach with these helps costing under $5 a piece!

As for music instruction, I teach the basics myself (6 years of piano lessons--thank you, Mom). If the interest flourishes beyond that, they find ways to get their own lessons in later years. If you can't afford a cheap keyboard, a recorder (this is a wind instrument, not an electronic device) is great fun to learn basic music theory with. If you don't know how to play or read music, there are all sorts of DVD teaching series out there.

We also try and afford art and hand-craft supplies as the need arises--printing paper with a bit of tooth is good for watercolors, and you can use the cheap bottles of acrylic craft paint in lieu of gauche or expensive watercolors as your children are growing in their artistic pursuits. We have actually used these paints for all sorts of things along the way. One of our sons has taken cheap plastic toy soldiers and painted them realistically for use in war dioramas. We also keep on hand lots of felt with needle and thread to teach sewing, etc. Chenille stems are relatively inexpensive and wonderful for little children to make all sorts of things with.

God has blessed us with unique ways of obtaining other lessons, such as moving in across the street from a Christian karate studio (we bartered for the lessons)--who could've arranged that but God? Our daughter's "intended" is a fireman, so he has arranged for a tour of the fire station, another daughter lives in ranch country and so will host another son for some of this summer to help with livestock, etc.

Some other easy ideas:

Personal wipe-off marker board: Place white sheet of paper in a page protector.

Re-usable math/penmanship sheets: Place sheets in page protector and use wipe-off markers--keep a "workbook" of various types in a 3-ring binder for extra practice.

Calculadders--an investment for years and years that I have never regretted buying.

Design-a-study guides--these were the first set in setting me free from the "textbook mindset", and a good investment that is usable for multiple children of multiple ages--shows you sort of "how to"...

Mad Libs--a wacky, wonderful way to introduce and reinforce basic parts of speech--the kids beg to do these.

101 Famous Poems--great overview of classic poetry to be read aloud, copied, etc.

Homeschool Sanity-- a Practical Guide to Redemptive Home Educating is my attempt to communicate a way back to common sense learning. It is a pathway back to the simplicity and joy of gaining the knowledge born out of the reverence for the God of the Bible. It is a journey filled with the grace and truth of Jesus Christ.

This book is easy to read. Even if one only has time for perusing, something useful and encouraging will be achieved (I have included a few pages in this article from my book for your consideration).

It is full of colorful and engaging graphics, helps, charts, templates and resources. Even the busiest mother will be able to breathe a sigh of relief as she reads just how easy it is to give her children an education that will be a blessing to them for the rest of their lives!

Dollar Homeschool--has wonderful resources offered in the form of the Eclectic Education Series. Each disc is full of old yet wonderful books and I was privileged to write the guides for each of the wonderful Eclectic collections. There is a lot of bang for the buck!

The Taming of the Shrew--if you are a bit uneasy about Shakespeare, try this one with your kids, easier to follow than some and full of funny antics that are easily understood--teaches some good lessons, as well. Thrift stores and old bookstores tend to have lots of copies of Shakespeare's works for a mere pittance. After reading this one play, my dear children have used their own money to buy every other play he ever wrote.

As for physical education--let the children play outside, go on walks, scooter, ride a bike. These are things children have done long before organized sports were thought to be necessary--and are quite satisfying. We have enough people to play basketball, which we do quite often, but you could also strike up a good game with the neighbors, or even some baseball. Tennis is another option, as is a membership at the YMCA or local swimming hole for some aquatic exercise. Have your kids walk or ride a bike to the store the next time you need a loaf of bread. If your family is more into sports, then incorporate sports into your "curriculum" and consider it as an integral part of your entire education plan, instead of an "interruption".

Your identity as a family is one of the greatest parts of home education; some are scholars, some are hands-on, some are geared to all sorts of things in all sorts of directions. Just keep Jesus as Lord, and you will have an opportunity to develop your curriculum to suit who you are in God, not according to someone else's image sitting in some sterile office on some college campus or government office.

The most important element to any education is totally free--enthusiasm! Even if you have an unlimited budget, you will never be able to pass on anything to your children without your own interest and encouragement. Children will learn and grow no matter what, but without your guidance it just may be they will grow into destructive weeds instead of fruitful plants.

Don't be afraid to take your kids home and give them your full attention because of money--funny thing, but when we step out in faith, God meets us on every side! After over 20 years, I have seen the seasons come and go, but His faithfulness has always been evident, His grace sufficient for every need.

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  1. Thank you again for the encouragement! I appreciate your experience!

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  2. I wish everybody even thinking about homeschooling could read this post. Every word is so. Read to your kids. Teach them to read plain old-fashioned "phonics first." Then find interesting books for them to read. Encourage them in the things that interest them. They will learn other areas as they touch on the things that interest them personally. Don't make punishment and "lessons" out of learning. Be a learner in front of them. It's just not that hard.

    I spent so many hours of my life being a successful school student only to realize years later that I remember very little of what I was supposed to have learned in school. Most of school is really about learning to be good at going to school.

    Teach kids to read and they will teach themselves!

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  3. Thanks. This is a very informative post. There have been many years where I had to sell things at yard sales, and such to get money for curriculum. When we finally got a computer around 4 years back, it sure did open a wide world of resources. Still, good old fashioned books, and art and helping mom and dad, some math and writing is not expensive. Add some creativity and put God in the center of it all...there you go! You are right. God bless.

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  4. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! I have been a single homeschooling mother of 3 for many years. This past year I have found myself in the hospital 5 times and now I find myself without a job and living quite supernaturally. God has been faithful to provide for us, but I may not be able to go "buy" everything I desire for my girls. So this was just what I needed to be reminded of. The foundation has been laid and we really love our homeschooling life. I look forward to trying out many of those free resources you mentioned. I've followed your blog for quite some time, although I rarely comment. But please know that God often uses your blog to strengthen and encourage me. Thank you!!

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  5. Thank you for all this wonderful information!!!! Oh my gosh! I am so going to have to check out the online reading and phonics thing as I am in that stage right now with my five year old and I just bougth 100 Easy Lessons... but have not been using it...shame... second guessing myself, but I needed to ready this to get me back on track with that. This post is so woderful in so many ways and if we change our "public school mindset" and use this type of thinking it would make it all so much easier for us new homeschoolers.

    And on that note.... as I began reading this post (before I got to the all the links and suggestions) I thought it was going to be just about the financial talk and I was thinking how right you are about that part, also. The expense was one of my concerns, but I save money.... Yes, SAVE money by homeschooling my kids. We are not drawn into all the "outside activities" that we would feel we "need" to do. We don't buy their list of supplies anymore, which much of it never got used. We don't have to purchase stuff for parties of 20+ students, which for the record I did not mind doing... but we just do not have that anymore. We don't have to buy schooll lunches or pack lunches. We are not in the car spending gas money... I used to take my kids to school and pick them up and with one in Pre-K that meant three trips. I only live minutes from the school, BUT the wait in the car lines with the gas a burning was crazy. Many times it would take 45 minutes for afternoon pick up and that was in a stop-and-go line, so you could not just turn off the motor. And then, there were teacher gifts (which I did not mind) and end of year gifts.... birthday parties from school kids that you would otherwise never visit... all those things add WAY up. Even if you do buy a pricey curriculum, chance are you save in the long run. Again, thanks for the great links!!! ....and great post!!!

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  6. Very informative post! I do agree that children can learn so much without spending hundreds of dollars on curriculum.The library has been one of the best resources for us through the years. However, I find the older my children (junior & high school) get, I do need to spend more money on curriculum. The reason being, I'm terrible at math and many of those high school subjects, so I need the resources that supply the instruction my kids need, that I am not able to give them.
    Switched on Schoolhouse has been a great help for our family. I was able to find the 4 subject bundle (math,enlish, science,history) on Amazon for a resonable price.

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  7. Amen!

    I was read a newspaper article that said that it cost the family being profiled several thousand dollars a year, per child! We laughed. We have never spent near that per year for all 6 of our children combined!

    Why do we make it so hard? How did children get educated in days past when the U.S had a 97% literacy rate? It is not that now!

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  8. Dear Shannon,

    Thank you for your valued input. I have often thought of how very much it would have cost us to put our tribe in public school--not just in money, but also in time.

    Sherry

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  9. My girls recently met some kids at the playground. These kids were with a group from the Boys and Girls Club, kids who needed a place to go after school. One girl, when she found out mine were homeschooled, said, "Oh! You must be rich!" I laughed. We are rich. Definitely not in the way she was thinking, but yes, we are rich. :o)

    Thanks for the links!

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  10. This is such a wonderful post! I am a single mom with a very limited income- and even that varies from year to year, lol. But I have had years when my entire homeschooling budget for all of my children combined was $100... or less. We did unit studies and I made up a lot of my own worksheets. I have also found that other homeschooling families are so very generous. I was fretting about what to use for my youngest son next year, and before I even mentioned my need to anyone, someone offered me just the level of materials I will be needing.
    God is so good!

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  11. Amen! Great post. They can also learn sorting by categorizing knives, forks, spoons, make a science journal in regards to gardening, watching a bird build a nest, learn math by helping cook, etc. And this stuff is fun, they don't realize that learning is going on. One of my favorites is to play games with the kids on Fridays after home ec (house cleaning), I usually opt for Yahtzee, one day my 13 year old figured out that I was cheating with my no school on Friday rule and they were really doing math...No, I replied, we are playing a game! There are so many fun things to do for school if everyone would only take the time to find them.

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  12. EXCELLENT!!! Thank you, thank you for confirming what I've been telling people for years! I even talked about it last night at a speaking engagement. We averaged about $500 a year for the 16 years we homeschooled...stretched out through the year for various items.

    We used alot of library books, bought our favorites for referrence, & used unit studies...many of which we wrote ourselves.

    I'd, also, like to add "Educating the WholeHearted Child" by Clay & Sally Clarkson to your book list.

    Blessings from Ohio...Kim<><

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  13. Thank You for sharing some of your experience and sources. I will check them out. A source I found very helpful is ambleside.com. They offer many online sources, books, and info for homeschooling.

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  14. Sherry,
    I LOVE this post. All of your posts are so informative and helpful...a real blessing!!
    I have a question. I am stuck in this mindset that if I don't have a specific curriculum to follow that I am not going to teach my children the "right" things... or that I am not going to teach them things at the right rate. I am not saying that there IS a "correct" rate, for I have already exprerienced that EVERY child is different, but a curriculum has kept me on track to at least know what they "should" be learning at what grade level, whether they work above that, or below.
    The other problem I have is always worrying that if we do not complete every little workpage and every writing "assignment" and each math page, etc. that I am not going to have the evidence and "proof" that needs to be submitted at the end of the year to the State.
    I have wanted for two years now to totally abolish these thoughts and misconceptions, but I still feel this way and I don't want to. I would LOVE to do it the way you have written and laid out. HELP me to understand where to start, because currently I DO spend about $700-$800, and that is just for the TWO out of my FIVE children. I would love to hear your advice! Thanks so much :)

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  15. I really enjoyed this post. We have been homeschooling for 14 years and your post has lifted me out of the winter slump and given me hope!!

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  16. Dear Nicole,

    I do not live in your state, so I don't know your laws. However, I am sure there are veteran homeschoolers who have learned how to meet your state's requirements without being slaves to the curriculum, or at least the "scope and sequence" of a graded curriculum.

    To get you started, what are your goals for your children--be realistic as far as what has helped you in your day-to-day life, especially as a Christian. Make these goals your "requirements" instead of what the state requires. Then it is just a matter of using some "educationaleze" to fit it into the language of the school bureaucracy.

    Remember, no school program, no matter how thorough, could ever be able to teach a child EVERYTHING they would need to know. Our job is not to fill them with knowledge, but to equip them to be life-long learners.

    Curriculum tends to create passive learners, since everything is prepared and spoon-fed. The best learning your child will ever have is what they obtain on their own after you have given them the basic tools.

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  17. Great ideas:)

    I wanted to tell you that you can also listen to FREE audio books now. You can listen to them straight from the internet or you can download them to your computer, mp3 player or ipod. I love this because you can listen to the books while you exercise or go about your daily chores.

    2 free audio websites are:

    www.librivox.org
    http://freeclassicaudiobooks.com/

    Blessings,
    Michelle

    http://thinkingchristianfamily.blogspot.com

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  18. www.amblesideonline.org which links to free editions of books. Main Lesson.com is another good source of free books. There is a free math and free spelling program as well, though I can't find the links right now.

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  19. Firstly, looks like you have done and are doing a fantastic job with your kids!!! Just wondering why you home school instead of sending your children to a christian school?

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  20. Thanks for the reminder that education is freely available if we are creative to look for it! Sometimes my laziness costs me more than I think!

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  21. WOW! I have never read such a comprehensive explanation on how to homeschool w/o an expensive curriculum! Especially not one so succinct! My son is almost 3 and we're starting to get a "school" routine down b/c he does so well with the one-on-one learning. I purchased a $40 preschool curriculum that I LOVE, and I find myself supplementing a lot b/c I *want* to - not b/c it's not enough. It has made me wonder if I'd be able to come up with my own "curriculum" that was well-rounded enough that I didn't need to buy a whole set of textbooks. Do you have any advice on checking to make sure your little ones have mastered the basics at each level?

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