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Monday, January 11, 2010

Mommy's toolbox--cleaning how-to chore lists

This last week was spent "tightening up" in preparation for this season of more intensified academics. I finally took the time to spell out methods of cleaning, mostly by the use of detailed lists.

I have used myriads of different chore systems before, and I can foresee myself using myriads in the future--it is just the nature of the job, the children, and myself that things need to be changed (what can I say, I am a "domestic engineer", and aren't all engineers born to change things?).

After all the work it took to type these things out, I thought it might help someone else, so I will share them here.

*If you are in a different place in life or different situation, please do not allow yourself to become pressured or discouraged by reading these.








I have discovered that my children needed a more specific understanding of just what cleaning entails, not just general directions such as "clean your room". To be honest, sometimes I even become flummoxed when posed with an absolute mess--where do I start?

Time is often wasted with basic things, one being the search for simple cleaning supplies like rags, spray bottles, etc.

Also, there is often a communication problem between parent and child; what do I really mean, and what does my child really understand from what I told him. A clean room from a child's perspective is quite different from an adult's perspective--these things need to be spelled out more clearly, enabling a child to feel more secure and that correction is just, and a parent to feel less frustration.

With my lists, which were put to the test last week, with input from the children every day as to ways to improve them, we have been experiencing a much cleaner house with less frustration and less time spent--these are all gifts of gold to my homeschooling mother's soul!

I don't believe these lists are general enough for someone else to use, but they just might enable someone else to be able to formulate their own.

Blessings!

36 comments »:

  1. Your Google Docs article on the Family Room was great! Much to apply next time I clean.

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  2. it says my email is not allowed access.... please let me see?? We have 5 (soon to be 7) kids and I am reworking OUR chore lists constantly -- I have been praying for a little help.

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  3. I'd love to be able to see your google docs! Please add me!

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  4. I would like to see them too please add me also

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  5. I'd like to be able to see them too. Thank you!

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  6. I would love to see them too please. Thank you :)

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  7. ditto with being able to see the docs you linked to.

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  8. I need some help also! Please let me see these in demand lists! :)

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  9. Hello,
    I'm a newlywed and, although I grasp and aplly the basics of home-keeping and management, I'd like to read your chore lists very much, because I need all the advice possible - and then a little more :)
    Thank you for this blog!

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  10. I have been "lurking" on your blog for some time now taking great pleasure in your many wonderful tidbits of information. I am impressed and motivated often. I would love to be added in order to view the google docs. We have just adopted our 8th child and life is a little less "graceful" it seems than it should be... it's time to get things back on track. Thanks so much.

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  11. May I please be added as well? Thank you for sharing this, I know it will help many mamas!!

    Jamie7987 at gmail dot com

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  12. Please add my email also to see the docs I have been hoping you would say more about the chore system in your home.

    Brandi

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  13. I would love to see them too. Thank you!

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  14. I would love to see them as well. Please add me! mykidsmom923@gmail.com Thanks!

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  15. Stumbled upon your blog recently and am enjoying it. I am hosting an art giveaway that you might find interesting. Stop by when you have a chance and take a look.
    Blessings
    Diane

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  16. I would so love to see these. I am a mother of four, beginning homeschooling trying to get a hold on my house. Please add me crooksfarm@gmail.com

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  17. Is there a way I could be added to view these lists?

    Thanks!

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  18. Would love to be added to view docs! jtmabpark@msn.com
    Thanks!

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  19. I am so sorry about the frustrating links--we are working on the problem!

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  20. Our chore system has all but fallen apart in the last few months and it shows. we need to get a chore system working again so the house does not fall apart so completely before getting a cleanup.I have to admit that even when we have a system in place, I really struggle to stick with the plan. Consistency is not my strong point and I am trying to be better at it.

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  21. I have found value in doing this very same thing, and have posted it on my blog as well! Also, I have the exact same throw pillows as you do! I didn't know about Google docs. I'll have to remember that. Thank you so much! Oh, by the way, I don't know if I ever told you that I have you listed on my "Mega-Families Blog". It's here if you'd like to come see...

    http://megafamilies.blogspot.com

    Have a great day!

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  22. NOW I can view them! Thank you so much! I look forward to reading them and getting some ideas.

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  23. This is just so cool. What a good idea! Thanks :-)
    Erin

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  24. I just implemented new cleaning lists in my own home last week!

    Mine are much simpler, but my children are much younger too.

    The pictures of your house look great; the kids are doing a great job!

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  25. Thank you so much. You are right about having to be specific with what is expected. I just purchased "Managers of Their Homes" by Steve and Terri Maxwell (Titus2.com). Your specific lists will work well into the schedule that I'm working on. Thanks again!

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  26. I would love to know how you handle toys in your home. I only have 6 children and I feel like the toys are such a mess. How do you store or organize toys?

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  27. Great ideas! With my older 2, I finally got to saying "clean your room the way I want it cleaned". That clearly specified for them that just shoving the stuff somewhere wouldn't work. Or the always popular, "you clean it or I will", which translates into get it clean or Mom's coming in and stuff is getting tossed. That works really well. Last month I cleaned out my 13 year old daughters desk. She sat in the room with me checking her vast asst. of markers to see what still worked with her back toward me and I hit the desk. Got a full big trash bag full of just junk. If she couldn't see what I was tossing, it wouldn't all of a sudden turn into a long lost treasure she had to keep. And, she hasn't missed a thing! It was motivation enough for my 16 year old to get her desk done without my help.

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  28. Could I please be added in order to view your list? Thank you!

    Lisa P.
    homeschooling mother of 7 who loves new ideas!

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  29. Just found your blog and love it. I have gained so much wisdom and insight. Will be using your cleaning how-to chore lists with my little ones. Thank you for sharing all that you do. Blessings, Mari

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  30. Could you please add me to your list? I have just stumbled upon your site and find it quite inspiring! smithkzn@gmail.com
    Deborah

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