Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh Patience.
But let Patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.
James 1:2-4
The weeks of adjustment every infant goes through are upon us. She is so beautiful I would not mind staying up all night just playing with her, but her tummy aches so horribly--poor baby! These are the times when a mother's heart becomes so soft as she must walk the floor helplessly while her little one writhes her feet in pain. But it builds the love-connection even more. All of these passages are necessary--they soften the hard places and solidify the good foundations of a life-long love between parents and child (my dear husband must be awakened, too).
Amazingly, however, I am not "sleep deprived". We go to bed around 9, and the baby awakens after 12, then I am able to get some good sleep of a few hours during the day. This is a wonderful thing!
I am still trying to make sure the rest of the children can enjoy their summer. We all get up by 6, read the Word, have our morning routine, which I inspect and expect a high level of performance. Then we have some fun. God has given me some good ideas--"washing" the van in the driveway, board games, home improvement, etc. Today the Lord had me send the children on a hike in the nature area by our house for a "scavenger hunt". They all had a good time, and I was able to take a nap.
I have dinner in the crockpot--some nice roast beef with veggies--and my little ones are all resting from their excursion this morning. The laundry is pretty caught up, and the rooms are all tidy--except for the basement, which is full of all sorts of creative things they have thought up today. We will clean it after naps, make some mashed potatoes to go with dinner, and be ready for our wonderful daddy to return.
Last night we had such a good time with him, sang hymns for quite a while together before Bible time. We don't sing hymns together often enough! Our older girls came over and we all encouraged each other in the Lord, laying hands on each other and praying. One daughter underwent a sleep test last night for the seizures she has been experiencing--we are all believing for God's healing in her life. He has been doing a good work in her through this time of helplessness.
Just a reminder to us all--it doesn't matter what is going on in the world, we are to walk under the shadow of the wings of the Almighty, in the secret dwelling place of the Most High. Live in the moment, and take every thought captive for Christ. He'll call us up when it's time--we need not worry or be distressed. These are precious times--take advantage of them to live for Him before our opportunity is lost.
Sherry




22 comments:
Beautiful!
Sherry, sounds like lovely summer days for you & your family. Congratulations on the new baby! I wish I had been half as organized as you when my were born. :)
Wow - thank you for sharing the details of your day. I read Proverbs 31 in my quiet time this morning - you are a real life picture of her. Also, the peace and calmness you have in the midst of a very busy time is encouraging to me as a mother of only two!!! Thank you for your example today!
Dear Sherry
I know the feeling of a crying newborn due to an aching tummy. My first two babies cried solidly for 6 weeks. With my third baby we had a brilliant midwife and we started with some diet changes. From my fourth baby we didn't have crying newborns anymore. I am pregnant with baby #8. To help mothers we have a page on my husband's health website http://www.eirenehealthshop.co.za/breast%20feeding%20tips.html
Maybe you can pay it a visit.
Enjoy your baby, there is nothing compared to a newborn baby.
Love
Linnie
I want to thank you so much for this post. I gave birth to our fourth, a son, three weeks ago and have been quickly reminded what its like to have an unhappy baby. Nursing has been difficult also. I keep trying to remind myself that these days are numbered, and I'll miss the tiny newborn he is now. Thanks for the encouragement and perspective. I'm praying that God will do a work in me during this season.
Jessica
Beautiful post... and just what I needed to hear. Thank You!
I don't remember how I found your blog but am so glad I did. Thank you for this lovely post! Enjoy your new little one and the older ones too : -)
Thanks for sharing this post~ The Lord is so good to all of us and we must remember that all we have and all we are is from Him~
I am so thankful that I can peacefully love and serve Him~
I am grateful that I have little men to tend to and raise to serve and love Him as well~
However we would be blessed to add a daughter to the family~
Prayerfully Patience will over come the tummy aches soon~
Blessings to you and yours~
Sherry, what a precious peek into your day. It brings back sweet memories of baby days! I hope that you and your remarkable family have a wonderful summer! I love that you eagerly await Daddy's return in the evening. I will encourage my little ones today to look for our favorite daddy!!!
In Christ,
Vanda
Thank you for your biblical example of motherhood. It is always an encouragement to me.
First of all congratulation on your baby ! And then thank you for being such an inspiration, really.
God bless you and your family !
I just discovered your blog today and I've really enjoyed reading several of your older posts! I love your insights and perspective and you have a wonderful way with words.
I am wondering if you have a specific post from the past that tells how you divide up the housework in a large family and when you fit the cleaning in to your busy school days. And what do you do about older ones who are gone from home alot with outside jobs and stuff?
Thanks for sharing your wisdom and experience. Enjoy your little one!
Elizabeth
Beautiful post! And congratulations! My baby is six months old, and she went through the "adjustment" for nearly five months. I must say, even though I had three other babies go through the same thing, it was grueling, because the oldest is only seven. I did enjoy all the holding and rocking we did together those first months. Now, she is a very happy camper, and eager to learn to crawl. Not so enamored of my lap and arms now, unless it is sleep and nursing time.
I will pray for you!
I used lots of colic tablets by Hylands and also really important for baby and Mommy is probiotics. Natren makes Life Start and I found it at discounted prices from other companies than Natren. God Bless all of you
What an absolutely beautiful look into the life of your family.
So encouraging!!!
Such a beautiful post on the insights of the issues of life. ~smile~ I am encouraged and also in awe of your organization as well~we could use a bootcamp there.... (((((HUGS))))) sandi
Amen Sherri!
We live much like you all....and I too love and use my crock pot most nights!
I'm glad to hear all is well with you and the new baby....I will pray for your other daughters healing!
I'm a QF momma(The Garden Gate) of 6 kiddos so far and praying to be blessed again!
I just found your blog, and haven't looked over the whole thing...but just wanted to say thank you. I am also a lover of Jesus, homeschooling mom and have a large family. (We have 13) plus 2 miscarriages.
Will look forward to keeping tabs on your story. pam
Thank you for your thoughtful reminders. Our baby #14 is almost 3 weeks old.
Julie B.
I can't beleive how creative you are while adjusting to a newborn!
Blessings as you enjoy your new one.
why are you lying? You're already mother of 15, not of 14 ;-)))
Congrats on Patience and blessings,
Krystina Perperieva
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