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Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Virtual schooling vs. Homeschooling

I live in a largely blue-collar town. There are no mansions or super affluent people that make up our community. The families that choose to be "traditional", with the daddy as the breadwinner, struggle. Lots of homeschooling families that I know here have had trouble even affording a computer.

In a community like ours, virtual schooling where the government sends a family a computer, pays for Internet use, and supplies all sorts of glossy, colorful curricula and even science and craft supplies, is a very great temptation.

When our state first began to offer such programs, I can remember the glowing reports of all of the "goodies" that were sent--it was like Christmas! Everything needed was provided, including scissors and craft paper, and seeds for growing things. Mothers who before had been wringing their hands wondering how they were going to afford the Saxon Math series were now almost care-free.

But there was a catch.

Someone has said that nothing in life is truly "free". With all of the goodies and the "comfort" of knowing someone else was in charge came a large price. Instead of worries over buying supplies and curricula, now the mothers had a heavy burden placed on them each and every day. They had to coerce and nag and bite their fingernails over getting the work done that was required--a whole boat-load of extra fact-cramming and busy-work that made it almost impossible for anyone to have a good life, especially for the mother who had even 3-4 children on different levels. Instead of having their lives simplified, they were complicated beyond comprehension, and their children were being harmed in the process and turned into drones who were beginning to hate anything to do with "learning".

Government controlled schooling!
The most unfortunate thing of all was that most mothers were convinced that this sort of government-sponsored slavery was what homeschooling was all about! Many who were already feeling overwhelmed about teaching their own children became convinced, after allowing the state to take control and mess with things, that homeschooling was impossible and horrid. So, they gave up.

But learning is not a super-complicated thing that only professionals know how to do!

Our children were born to us completely helpless--they could not even hold their own heads up! Somehow, with our maternal encouragement, they learned to walk and talk and feed themselves. Children, even in some of the most impoverished conditions, learn to do these things, unless they are ill or haven't any food to eat.

Why do children learn these things? Is it because they are constantly nagged, or they have been through the right "programs"? No. Children learn these things because they want to and it was a necessity. The parents are there to facilitate, encourage and guide.

Now here is the secret that those who run teaching colleges and publish curricula and make their living on the supposition of universal idiocy do not want you to know:

TEACHING CHILDREN IS NOT DIFFICULT--THEY ALREADY WANT TO LEARN!

I once checked out a magazine published for teachers from the library, thinking I could glean something of value for my own family. An article was written therein about teaching composition to middle-school students. I could not believe the amount of verbiage it took--paragraph upon paragraph of evidence and studies and then the methodology that took pages to explain. What a waste!

Writing is just an extension of language, another form of communication. When it is taught in this context, it no longer seems mystical or complex. Good writing is learned by reading the good writing of others--with reading aloud, discussion, and application.

The same goes for the other subjects. Math is a sort of communication, it is the communication of the Creator to His creation--that there is order and care. Science is best described as the "thinking of God's thoughts after Him". The wonder of this planet and the universe is the only catalyst needed. Once the appetite has been whetted, a parent need only watch a child take off like a rocket-ship (and be willing to enjoy the adventure).

Of course, you can't enjoy the wonderful adventure of discovery with your child if every day is prescribed and written down. The time and energy you would normally have to explore and discover is all taken up by the reading of droll, dumbed-down texts, numerous questions to be answered by rote understanding, canned experiments and the like.

A family outing together!
Yes, there are times when a little rote learning can be valuable, but not as an all-encompassing program. The teaching of facts should be likened to handing out tools that a skilled craftsman, the child, can use to create and discover further. Rote learning should never become the end, but the means. We should not be so much concerned with turning out children who can win at Trivial Pursuit as much as we should be concerned with raising children who demonstrate that they can take the information in any situation, analyze it, and come up with wise conclusions and solutions.

I do not write theory here; I myself have seen the proven examples, and not just among my own children.

But the public schooling industry, and it is a great part of our economy, does not want you and I to know just how simple teaching and learning really is. Just think of how many meetings and conferences would have to be canceled. Entire political sub-committees would have to be disbanded. We would see a lot of educational Ph.d.'s flipping burgers, and whole educational supply industries would go belly-up.

Judeo-Christian values
I personally believe that it would allow Christianity to regain its influence once again as the underlying foundation of our Republic, as parents would be allowed to pass on their Judeo-Christian values in a personal way to the subsequent generation.

But you won't read this in the leaflets sent out to entice you. They will act as your friend, and say how they understand that you feel unsure and intimidated. But they definitely are not friendly. They only wish to use your own fears to convince you that you can not do it on your own.

But, with God's grace and help,

YOU CAN!!!

"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." (Philippians 4:13)

Article was originally posted on 12/2/08.

24 comments »:

  1. I have had a number of people tell me about this type of program for homeschooling once they learned that was the education path we had chosen. I just said no think you. I want the least amount of government involvement in my childrens lives as possible.

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  2. The exact same thing happened to my daughter and her 5 year old daughter. At first this program sounds so exciting. Then all the "neat" goodies start arriving and woohoo how fun! Then my daughter called and told me ALL the stuff was going back.
    At first I couldn't believe it! And then she explained.........
    ....the hook.....Don't FALL for it.

    Miss Lila in Atlanta

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  3. Thanks so much for this excellent post! As the mother of eight I have watched with dismay as fellow homeschoolers have run toward the government offer of virtual schooling. We have lived through some very financial lean years and yet God provided what we needed to educate our children. Education is not difficult nor complicated and an average, loving parent can change the world just by encouraging her children to read every day! The enemy of God knows how powerful the Christian home is...and he wants to keep mothers and their children far from home and busy with lots of needless activities.
    Thanks again!

    Jill Farris

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  4. We were sucked into the virtual school this year. I so desperately wanted to keep my daughter home after preschool. I sent her because I was "supposed to". You know, sending my daughter to school early so she could get a good education. What a mistake.
    I didn't know much about homeschooling, least alone about the laws. This virtual school came to our library toting that I wouldn't have to worry about the legal aspects because she would be enrolled in school.
    What a mistake!!! We are hashing it through because I don't seem to be able to make a curriculum while trying to "keep up" with the mundane. She is learning, but she doesn't like it much. Next year I will be prepared. I am looking for a mentor in my area - I want to be able to teach my daughter, not to have someone else tell me what to do day in and day out, but I think a mentor will be helpful in showing me the legal and also implimentation of some things.
    Thank you for helping people open their eyes - virtual school isn't homeschool, it's public school in your home!
    Shellie

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  5. IN BC Canada it is the same kind of idea. If you choose to have the government involved you can have $1000 for each school aged child and use it on what ever, piano, swimming school supplies. But you have to meet learning out comes and have a teacher who you have to send reports too.
    We have been homeschool 5 years and the temptation is not even there a little bit.
    GREAT POST

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  6. This is an interesting issue, and quite frankly, one that I was unaware of. I did know that homeschoolers were "allowed by law" to obtain the curriculum and textbooks from the local public schools where they lived, but had no idea that this "virtual schooling" was an option.

    To me, though, the question is - why would anyone want the government's curriculum at all?

    Most homeschoolers know that they do not want the government's schools - for religious or educational reasons - so why would they want to take the offer?

    I know that there are financial concerns, of course, and I do not mean to downplay or minimize those.

    Still, I wonder why someone who has chosen to "break away" from government schooling, would so quickly go back to the same?

    When we choose to do what we feel is right, it is not necessarily going to be the "easiest" option, but it WILL be the right option!

    Thank you for highlighting this issue. I hope that your readers will be encouraged that it is not necessary that a parent be highly "educated" in order to educate! The parent who cares will do more than any PhD who does not!

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  7. Yet another excellent post. I have seen this exact thing (i.e. families getting seduced into government schools via "virtual schooling"). You are (again) right on.

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  8. I loved this post! I have seen several families I'm close to choose to homschool with a "virtual school". Every single one has given up as they become overwhelmed with the workload for several children and having to force those children to "keep on schedule" with what the public school requires. I have a friend who used one for Kindergarten and was so overwhelmed she just gave up and put the child back in school.

    Homeschooling is not complicated!!! It is impossible to do on your own, but with God ALL things are possible. These are his children. He will provide what they need for education. And believe it or not that may not be the lessons you would choose so GET ON YOUR KNEES and ask him what to teach and how to teach! We rely so much on ourselves first, forgetting that we can do nothing without God.

    Thank you for a great post. It breaks my heart to see so many families try out what they think is homeschooling and give up because it requires more of them than thier loving Father would.

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  9. Thank you for the excellent reminder that "He who pays the piper calls the tune". We started homeschooling precisely because we are directed by the Lord to be the ones to call the tune.

    I am so grateful to live in a province in Canada which allows homeschoolers to be completely autonomous. Sometimes other moms I know will bellyache about wanting funding for homeschooling like some other provinces. However, as your post outlines, we would be 'paying' for the money we receive with our freedom. It is not worth the cost, to say the least.

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  10. Hoorahs, applause, bells, whistles, zingers, jumping up and down...YES!! Yes to all that you said!! VERY WELL SAID, I might add!! Virtual/Charter schools have caused such problems here in Ohio - the least of which is the intentional confusing of *real* homeschooling w/public-school-in-the-home in the eyes of an ignorant public, those looking into homeschooling and being lied to by the public school officials who tell them that it's the same thing, and intentionally confusing the issue in the eyes and minds of the our state legislature. The worst part, that the unsuspecting public doesn't understand, is that when you sign on the dotted line to use Virtual/Charter schooling in your home, you sign away your 4th Amendment. They don't tell you that part.

    As Jill F said in her comment, we, too, have lived through many financially LEAN times BUT the our amazing Lord has always provided. He always makes a way.

    I am going to link to your article. EXCELLENT!!

    Blessings from Ohio...

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  11. It's funny. My brother first told me about Virtual Schooling. He was at first against and is still not sure about this "homeschooling thing" and was telling me about how I would get a free computer and all this stuff.

    As I went through that the kids would be in the exact same books as their public school counterparts, take the same tests, check in with the teacher...
    He interupted me and said, "So, it is just public school at home then. Well, what good is that?"

    I love that boy. There is hope yet for him.

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  12. Someone posted this over at The Homeschool Lounge and I'm thrilled to find it. Thank you for writing this! It needs to be sent all over the place. I'll do my part and put a link on my blog.

    May God continue to bless you and your family on your homeschooling journey!

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  13. My thoughts exactly.

    I signed up my 5 year old (I have 3 other children) as a test, and was disappointed when I was required to login each day and was also bombarded with emails.

    I run an online business as a single mom, and my time is so precious that I teach the kids all together. Bible study is also a huge part of our curriculum. This program might be fine for someone with only one child, but my daughter was already beyond the curriculum to begin with so most of it would have been busywork anyway.

    I am also quite skeptical of freebies from the government. Since the child is not counted as a homeschooler but is considered to be in public school, that will obviously skew the numbers to their advantage.

    I think that may negatively affect homeschoolers eventually. I just don't want them in my living room.

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  14. Each week Considering Homeschooling recognizes the faithful service of someone getting the message out about private, biblical homeschooling. This week (our first week) we recognize you for this blog.

    God bless you and your large family. Fourteen children... I can only image the looks and comments you get going places. I remember our not-so-large family of six young ones marching through the Alamo. I'm not sure why, but we seemed to be a greater attraction for the tourists that day.

    Thank you for your good work.

    Charles and Kathy Lowers
    Considering Homeschooling

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  15. "Whoever pays the piper calls the tune."

    Yeah, that's how it goes.

    WIC is much the same way-- you think "hey, I could sure use some extra milk and cheese and beans 'round here" but what it amounts to is an easy way for social-workers to pry into your family's business. Bleh.

    Most of them mean well, but man they can sure be nosy.

    I got to dreading my "appointments;" I felt like they were a little too interested in keeping tabs on me, IYKWIM.

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  16. Thank you for this post! I found your blog via Barbara Frank, the Imperfect Homeschooler, after reading her book.... While my oldest is only 17 months, I've found myself in the past five months seriously studying homeschooling and what it would require. Most books have been extremely helpful, and we've decided to homeschool our kids, but one book got me all sorts of stressed because it was listing, year by year, what children need to learn. For either preschool or kindergarten, it included stuff like painting with several different methods - sponges, leaves, straws - on different surfaces - butcher paper, construction paper, sandpaper, etc. I was thinking, "Do they do this in India? In Japan? Is this really necessary to get a healthy, well-rounded adult?" I talked with my husband about it, asking why people come up with these things, and he said, "To feel smarter than other people." And that's basically it. I think so much of "education" these days, as ordained and practiced by the education industry, is designed to make the professional educators appear more knowledgeable and capable than the average dumb parent. The average parent lacks the wherewithal to invest in the gazillion art and craft and science supplies deemed necessary by the public education system, and so ... give up your delusions of grandeur and send your kid to the only rational place for him to learn.

    Thank you for an excellent post. You reiterate what Barbara Frank and others have said - that educating our children is NOT difficult. We've only been trained to think that by people who are often more concerned about their job security than our children's welfare.

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  17. I had to tell you that I signed my 7th grader up for this state funded school program 3 mos ago and I've watched my once vibrant,curious daughter turn into a tired,cranky recluse who refused to do any work at all.
    I blamed myself of course.I obviously am not responsible enough to make her do the required assignments.
    She's doubting her intelligence now as well.
    I struggled with the decision but actually withdrew her a few days ago.
    I will now be sending all thos ewonderful "goodies" back and pursue some sort of alternate homeschool method.
    I feel that I happened onto this post to encourage me and also to squash all those feelings of doubt I still had lurking in my head.
    I know that we did the right thing.
    Thank you.
    Amy

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  18. Another wonderful post. Everything you said about homeschooling is right on. When new homeschoolers ask me "what books should I use" I answer a different question instead. I ask them, "What kind of people are you raising?" Set your priorities and then teach according to those goals. It's not about the curriculum. It's about raising PEOPLE.

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  19. Excellent post! I'm planning on starting homeschool next year with my two little girls and I've been wondering about those programs. Yet something keeps nagging at me that there will just be a million papers and assignments and "things" to do and it will complicate life so much. Also, I'll have a teacher looking over my shoulder the whole time. Bleh. I just need to get past the fear that I can't do this and realize that I CAN!

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  20. I have seen the same thing happen in our county concerning virtual school via the government. So many moms become convinced that school-at-home is so hard that they quit and send their kids back to school. I wonder if this is part of the government plan? After all, both virtual schooling and kids in school are a win for the government! They get their funding either way (but with virtual schooling they don't have to pay for the building and additional staff).

    When the government offers freebies...always, always follow the money trail.

    HSLDA was right in calling virtual schools "The Trojan Horse" of American Education!

    Jill Farris

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    1. Dear Jill,

      Thank you for your insight. Could you contact me at: largefamilycomments@gmail.com.

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  21. Here in Alaska homeschooling is common place. No one looks at you funny and EVERYONE uses the homeschooling programs available. They are actually very different from what you describe. The programs give you about $2000 per child to spend on the curriculum YOU want for your child. (They will not pay for faith based programs however. But you can pay for those yourself.) All they ask in return is that you show up to the state testing once a year, which suits me, as I like to know how my children rank with other children. They also ask for 4 work samples per class, per year to keep in their records in case they ever get audited by the state. It's a really nice deal and my children have tons of books and games and puzzles, etc.. etc.. that they never would have had if we weren't in a program. We don't do any more school work now than we did when we didn't live here. I just don't have to do all the work piecing it together from the library and internet.

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  22. Dear Dya,

    Yours is a unique situation, but I am sure you can understand that those of us in the contiguous US face a very different scenario. If only the rest of the states could learn from Alaska!

    Sherry

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