Monday, January 14, 2008

Instead of couponing

I've looked into it off-and-on for years, and I just can't see where I would actually save by doing coupons. I'm certain there are reasons why it works, and there are ladies who couldn't get by without it. But it doesn't work for our large family.

Here are some of the reasons why:

  • We are very basic people; we don't use the products that are covered by coupons
  • I get fuzzy in the head just thinking about keeping track of all of the sales, etc.
  • I would need to buy 14 of each item, or enough to feed 14 servings, etc.
  • After comparing, I have found that I can do as good or better by my careful shopping for store brands or in bulk.
  • In my humble opinion, most coupons were created by manufacturers to convince us to try and use items they have dreamed up so that we will think we are using something "new" and "innovative"--like those Swiffer-type doohickies that make you think that you are doing less work, when in reality you are just helping the corporate bottom-line because they know that you could buy a broom and a mop from just about any company, and they would work just as well for a lot less.
Things I do to cut costs:

  • I use only the cheapest toothpaste--usually about $1 a tube
  • Our shampoo is $1 or less a bottle (we use 4 a month)
  • I buy our toothbrushes at Dollar Tree--4/$1--we go through at least 8 a month (this is a whole other adventure--check previous posts)
  • I use a vinegar and water mixture in old Windex spray bottles to clean pretty much everything in the house--from toilets, to sinks, to windows, to mirrors.
  • Baking soda is my next ally
  • I don't buy breakfast cereal
  • We buy the store-brand of diapers, wipes, feminine products, etc.
  • My cosmetics are the cheapest--often from Dollar Tree--but they work just as well as the more expensive brands.
  • We don't use over-the-counter medicines, except for the occasional store-brand "effervescent pain-reliever" for $2 a box
  • Even our "natural" medications are few, and can usually be home-made, save for Goldenseal--which is one of our favorites--better than lots of stuff that's prescribed.
  • Our snacks are basic--like popcorn, pretzels, and corn chips that we buy in bulk. If we want cookies, we make them--except for the $1 a box graham crackers that we are sort of addicted to.
  • My kids would rather have an apple or some raisins (or even a few dates) than one of those crazy, unhealthy fruit rollup thingies that cost a lot and wire kids up.
  • We prefer water or milk to any other beverage (we do have Reverse Osmosis drinking water--worth its weight in gold!)
  • Our laundry detergent is bought by the big bucket from Sam's, and when I think it needs a boost I put a small amount of Borax in with it.
  • Bleach works to disinfect and whiten our clothes (we also have a water-softening system)
  • Spot remover--just a dab of dish liquid--cuts grease and almost anything else if put on before it sets!
  • We use white bar rags instead of paper towels
  • If we need some "freshening", I open some windows or I use a tea light and a potpouri simmering pot ( I find these at Thrift Stores and the Goodwill for about .50 a piece)
I don't like (I actually hate) shopping except for thrift stores and garage sales (well, maybe book stores could be put in there, too). Instead of spending my time shopping for coupon deals, I'd rather spend a couple of hours a month stocking my pantry with basics that are multi-purpose, and then using the rest of my time for things like blogging, reading stories aloud to my little ones and listening to my older ones.

17 comments:

Linda said...

'If we need some "freshening", I open some windows'


*lol*!!!!!!! People can forget these basic things so easily nowadays! :)

Meredith said...

I used to be a super-couponer, back when I could get several newspaper inserts at a time from my newspaper carrier.

When my husband was diagnosed with diabetes, I swung completely the opposite way. I only bought raw ingredients and cooked everything from scratch.

Now I do a bit of both. I save only the personal care and cleaning coupons. With less than an hour effort per month, we have enough free toothpaste, antipersperant and razors to last us a year.

Perhaps one of your children could take on the personal care coupons as an experiment!

Valerie said...

Thanks for the encouragement! I get worn out trying to do coupons, too. Aldi works for me!

Amity said...

Whew...I thought I was the only one that did not do coupons!!! I find that 99% of the time they are for things I do not need or even want for that matter,LOL. As for shopping, honestly, I loath grocery shopping so I am not going to be running all over the place getting the best deals and such. And really I don't spend too much on grocerys..I make a menu and a list. Anyways it is refreshing to see that there are others who don't do coupons and store hopping ;-)

Jessica said...

Ahhh...a kindred spirit! I have tried and tried to use coupons, but the ones I find are always for things we don't use (alot of convenience foods and such). Buying in bulk is more sensible and economical for us as well.

kozimom said...

As usual, I agree!

Just wondering though - what are the measurements for your vinegar water cleaning solution? And how do you use the baking soda? Thanks!

Anonymous said...

I was mulling a similar post over in my mind. I've been trying the CVS/Rite Aid deals for a few weeks and my mind is about to explode trying to save money on things I normally wouldn't buy.

Now, I don't have to write my post - I'll just link to yours! :)

Cindy
www.homeschoolblogger.com/westward

ladyofvirtue said...

Dear Meredith,

You must have a knack or something--free sounds like such a nice word!

Kozimom,

I don't really pay much attention to my ratios in the bottles--but I found this cool site that might help. It also has all sorts of other ideas that I hadn't thought of before, so it will be helpful for me as well!

Linda--

You have my sort of humor!

Sherry

deb said...

I found your site this morning. I don't do coupons either! I have tried but I never found that they saved me money. I buy the generic brand of everything anyway. That is usually much lower then other items with coupons.

ladyofvirtue said...

Kozimom,

While lying in bed last night I realized that I forgot to put the link in my last comment--oops!

Here it is:

http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Prairie/8088/clngrn.html

deb said...

I hope this isn't considered a silly question. I noticed that you said that you don't buy breakfast cereal. I am just curious what do you feed your family every morning? Do you cook big breakfasts? I would like to stop buying cereals myself because they seem full of sugar and perservatives but I have no idea what simple meals that I can make.

MamaArcher said...

I do not have the time or the energy to run from store to store for all of the sales, I figured I would spend my savings in gas money anyway.
I only use coupons when they are in the store and on an item I typically buy anyway!

Audrey said...

I loved this post. I never could get into the coupon thing. I have been reading lately about the CVS coupon sprees people go on, and it seems that they get quite a bit of stuff for free, BUT its stuff I would never really use. I too feel like I can do a better job finding deals and buying generic/thrift store goods, as opposed to coupons. I feel a bit more "normal" now...thanks! LOL

shopannies said...

I think that you need a bit of both. I mean I went to CVS and because of their sale recieved $20 worth of chocolate for baking and stockings for free because of coupons. However I know that there are many coupons that will go unused because of storebrands or knowing how to make recipe is cheaper than what the product would cost even minus the coupon. But I know how you feel I only use coupons for items I can get next to nothing.

Rach said...

You are my kind of woman! I never do coupons either, because they don't have coupons for fresh produce, beans, rice, and similar things.

I noticed that someone had a question about breakfasts, so I will put in my two cents. We either have soaked oatmeal (from bulk oats, cheap!), a smoothie out of yogurt, milk, and frozen or overripe fruit, eggs and toast (from homemade bread), or sometimes I buy raisin bran from the bulk containers too. I am happy to have my WinCo!

Amy Matthews said...

I haven't been reading your blog long and maybe you have a post about this but with three kids under four who has time to read all the back posts, right! I am encouraged about your thriftiness and am already trying to cut costs on household products like cleaning and hygine things. I think usding cheaper toothpaste and shampoo would be a great start.

Anyway my question was what about diapers? Do you use cloth? What about wipes, I have been making my own with Bounty w/baby wash &baby oil and it seems to work pretty well. We are not Sam's club members because there isn't a store very close. My daughter is allergic to the store brand diapers so I use a coupon for more expensive ones. I have been thinking of switching to cloth but I am on the fence about it.

Just wondering what you do to keep costs down and keep those tiny tushies clean?

tami said...

i loved this post! just today i posted about how i wasn;t saving but rather spending more with qs and then while surfing i found this! i love it!! ( i have 7 kids)